Profanity, Now
There came a twist in our relationship with she telling me 2 weeks back that she had sexual talk with another guy. Though I always liked the idea of my wife having sex with another guy, I really did not ask her to do it.
I don’t what prompted me to do it, whether its a wish to satisfy her desires or to experience the pleasure of knowing that my wife is bitching. I encouraged her to do it. So day after day she started talking with that guy and they are talking real sex now.
The worst part in this is, I am asking her and giving hints of how to advance the relationship. I am asking her how did she talk with him and I would come hearing that. I would ask her tell me what you would do if he was here and she would tell me I would come. She is making me come daily for 4-5 days with her talks and description.
One day, she gave show to that guy in net and I was also watching it on my cam.That made me crazy.
And finally, today she is meeting the guy outside, though its not for sex, I think she would it in a couple of weeks with him.
I know all this is wrong, but why am I liking it? I never have an intention of having an affair, but why am I encouraging her? I really wanted to know, I wanted to understand the psychology behind this strange behaviour. I know this is an unkempt path, but we are going in it. I am sure she will not stop it, until I ask her because she loves sex and like the touch of a Man. Since i am not there, she is requiring an outlet and she would do it if its not a problem for it.
I want to know and try to come of this path.
soniarott said,
March 6, 2007 at 7:33 pm
it may seem strange but you are not the only one with such a problem. in fact, many couples go through this kind of issues, especially when they start spending a lot of time apart. i’m not saying it RIGHT. i’m just saying it’s NOT HORRIBLE. however, if you want me to give you some advice, you must tell me more about yourself and your wife. and your life togheter, and why she can’t live without sex.
soniarott said,
March 6, 2007 at 7:41 pm
since you posted a comment on my blog, i found it natural to do so on your blog. i looked through your posts. and i’m not shocked. it’s really not that strange that you fantasise about those kind of things.
however, i need to know more about you and your wife and your relationship, including your sex life, in order to give you some advice. if you are interested, let me know by posting something on my blog. post it on cheating.
i don’t know if you received the other message, so i wrote to you again.
soniarott said,
March 13, 2007 at 5:06 pm
i read what you posted. and i’m asking you this. do you love this woman? and i mean really, really love her. because if you do not love her that much and you do not see the both of you growing old in each others arms, i think you should stop thinking so much about these things. if it’s only sex and adventure, than you are free to have any kind of fantasies and have an open relationship. if there is love involved and a future togheter you must tell her what you want from her. if you want her to sptop, tell her that, if you don’t , be honest. do not delay this conversation. and remember, if a woman truly loves a man, she does not need to have sex with other men. and for a normal woman, sex is not the same with every man. love makes all the difference, hear my word. it’s from my own experience.